faq
1. Do you handle the license for us?
The marriage license is something you need to apply for yourselves in person at your local City Hall.
Without a marriage license, your marriage will not be legally recognized. Once the ceremony is over, I will handle the mailing of your license.
2. How far do you travel?
I will perform weddings anywhere inside the GTA. Travel charges will apply ($1/km) for all venues outside of the GTA. I live near Roncesvalles/High Park in Toronto.
3. What's the difference between your three packages?
The customized script will include your own personal story that requires you to fill out a questionnaire and also gives you the option of writing your own personal vows to each other. The standard script does not include these two things however you can say traditional vows. The legalities only package is exactly that and doesn't include anything but the legalities.
4. What are the legalities.
a) Question of Impediment ("do you come here freely to be married on this day without impediment?")
b) Declaration of Intent (the "I Do's")
c) The signing of the registry.
d) The Pronouncement (declaring you are now married)
These all must happen in front of two witnesses.
5. Who should my witnesses be?
Anyone that can recognize the marriage and be willing to sign and say that you were married.
6. We're not really religious but we'd like to add religious aspects to the ceremony. Is that okay?
Absolutely. This is what separates me from some officiants is that Metaphysicians are accepting of all religions.
7. Is it okay if a family member does a reading during the ceremony?
Absolutely.
8. Are rehearsals included in the cost?
Sadly no. I do my very best to prepare you enough that you won't need a rehearsal but for certain ceremonies it can still be a good idea to do so. I charge $150/hour for rehearsals, assuming I am available to do so. One hour is often more than enough.
9. I have a family member who will perform the ceremony, I just need someone to sign the paperwork and make the marriage legal. Is that something you provide?
Yes, you would want to get the "Legalities Only Service" package. All packages can be found here.
10. Are you legally recognized by the government?
I am legally recognized by the province of Ontario.
11. Do you have videos of you in action or can we come see you perform a wedding?
I am working on the videos and hope to have something soon. Unfortunately I cannot grant you permission to come watch me work at someone else's wedding. I would urge you to read what people are saying about me here.
12. Can you perform a Catholic wedding or a Jewish wedding?
I specialize in non-denominational ceremonies with the occasional religious tradition. I would recommend a recognized priest, rabbi, etc if you are looking for a full religious service.
13. What languages do you speak?
English only.
14. Will I receive anything that proves we are married?
You will receive a record of solemnization at the end of your ceremony. For further legal proof of your marriage, you can also apply for a marriage certificate. You will receive this form when you receive your license - hang on to it.
15. What happens if you are sick or there is an emergency and you are no longer available?
I am well connected with many other officiants so I will do my best to find a replacement for you. In the absolute worst case, I would simply return all payment to you and urge you to look on Wedding Rescue for a replacement.
16. I hear you are a DJ/MC, do you offer combo packages to do both things?
Yes, I can be hired to do both officiant and DJ/MC duties at your event. The one thing to keep in mind is that I will not be able to play any music during the ceremony. I would recommend live music for the ceremony.
The marriage license is something you need to apply for yourselves in person at your local City Hall.
- bring 2 pieces of government-issued identification for each person getting married. One piece of identification must include your photo.
Examples of government-issued identification:- government-issued birth certificate, including any change of name certificates
- valid passport
- record of immigrant landing
- Canadian Citizenship Card
- valid driver’s licence
- valid Ontario Photo Card
Without a marriage license, your marriage will not be legally recognized. Once the ceremony is over, I will handle the mailing of your license.
2. How far do you travel?
I will perform weddings anywhere inside the GTA. Travel charges will apply ($1/km) for all venues outside of the GTA. I live near Roncesvalles/High Park in Toronto.
3. What's the difference between your three packages?
The customized script will include your own personal story that requires you to fill out a questionnaire and also gives you the option of writing your own personal vows to each other. The standard script does not include these two things however you can say traditional vows. The legalities only package is exactly that and doesn't include anything but the legalities.
4. What are the legalities.
a) Question of Impediment ("do you come here freely to be married on this day without impediment?")
b) Declaration of Intent (the "I Do's")
c) The signing of the registry.
d) The Pronouncement (declaring you are now married)
These all must happen in front of two witnesses.
5. Who should my witnesses be?
Anyone that can recognize the marriage and be willing to sign and say that you were married.
6. We're not really religious but we'd like to add religious aspects to the ceremony. Is that okay?
Absolutely. This is what separates me from some officiants is that Metaphysicians are accepting of all religions.
7. Is it okay if a family member does a reading during the ceremony?
Absolutely.
8. Are rehearsals included in the cost?
Sadly no. I do my very best to prepare you enough that you won't need a rehearsal but for certain ceremonies it can still be a good idea to do so. I charge $150/hour for rehearsals, assuming I am available to do so. One hour is often more than enough.
9. I have a family member who will perform the ceremony, I just need someone to sign the paperwork and make the marriage legal. Is that something you provide?
Yes, you would want to get the "Legalities Only Service" package. All packages can be found here.
10. Are you legally recognized by the government?
I am legally recognized by the province of Ontario.
11. Do you have videos of you in action or can we come see you perform a wedding?
I am working on the videos and hope to have something soon. Unfortunately I cannot grant you permission to come watch me work at someone else's wedding. I would urge you to read what people are saying about me here.
12. Can you perform a Catholic wedding or a Jewish wedding?
I specialize in non-denominational ceremonies with the occasional religious tradition. I would recommend a recognized priest, rabbi, etc if you are looking for a full religious service.
13. What languages do you speak?
English only.
14. Will I receive anything that proves we are married?
You will receive a record of solemnization at the end of your ceremony. For further legal proof of your marriage, you can also apply for a marriage certificate. You will receive this form when you receive your license - hang on to it.
15. What happens if you are sick or there is an emergency and you are no longer available?
I am well connected with many other officiants so I will do my best to find a replacement for you. In the absolute worst case, I would simply return all payment to you and urge you to look on Wedding Rescue for a replacement.
16. I hear you are a DJ/MC, do you offer combo packages to do both things?
Yes, I can be hired to do both officiant and DJ/MC duties at your event. The one thing to keep in mind is that I will not be able to play any music during the ceremony. I would recommend live music for the ceremony.